The Mythical "Nice Guy"
I'm not ready to dismiss by buddy Gene's lovely offer to meet in Akron [Thanks, Snake. I'm just crazy about you! And thanks for defending my honor on that bedroom thing. That will be our little secret.], however I am totally smitten with a new man in my life. I've not written about it sooner (except in emails to a few of you) because I didn't want to jinx things. Not that I'm superstitious or anything. Okay, maybe just a LITTLE superstitious!
I don't remember dating being this confusing or requiring this much effort when I was younger! Of course, that could explain all the lousy choices I made when I was younger. But I digress...
PW is one of those nice guys women assume are purely mythical. He treated me to dinner last week at a lovely restaurant on a lake where we had a table by the window. Very romantic. He brought me flowers this weekend with a note reading, "I'm glad we met". (Along with veggies from his garden!) He doesn't smoke, doesn't hunt, has a good job, likes parties and will even dance! (How about that, Paul?) He's easy to talk to, treats me like a lady and doesn't seem to have any unresolved issues. He has two college-aged kids, both attending school on academic scholarships. He beams with pride when he talks about them. It's absolutely charming. On top of all that, he's very good-looking with the most beautiful hazel/green eyes.
I'm hoping that the "men problems" Ol' Hoss referred to in his guest post yesterday may be a thing of the past.
If not, I'll be relocating to Akron, Ohio, without so much as a backward glance at those stinkin' Connecticut dinosaurs!
21 Comments:
Oh, wordwhiz, he sounds (and looks!) fabulous. I AM SO HAPPY for you.
Good luck! :-)
6:53 AM
Dayli: My track record is pretty lousy, so I'm trying to contain my enthusiasm. However he seems pretty terrific so far! Thanks!!
7:29 AM
So you took the big step and went public. I'm wishing every time you two get together it's better than the time before.
8:11 AM
Lejnd: Awww...thanks, my friend. I spoke with him last night and he's telling his friend and his kids about me. I think he may be as smitten as I am!! Isn't THAT cool??
8:52 AM
Congratulations, he sounds wonderful! The nice guys do exist. Sounds like you found one of them! I'm mentally putting this picture with the one Hoss posted of you yesterday, and I think you make an adorable looking couple!
8:57 AM
Wunderbar! He really is nice looking. Tell him if he's not nice to you I will be all over him like a tall dog.
GL, Whizzer.
9:17 AM
He IS cute!
10:29 AM
Yes ladies...he's very cute.
HANDS OFF! HE'S MINE!! :-)
10:35 AM
Finding a man you are totally smitten over is the greatest feeling!! I wish you all the luck!! <3
11:30 AM
Awwww! How sweet! Good luck! :)
BTW, does your blog still look big? Mine is! Man..
12:48 PM
I hope it works out for you, you've been through enough!
1:34 PM
Min: YES!! My blog is still big. Certain other things are too. My Hotmail sign-in screen looks big, but once I log in, the mailbox screen looks fine. Did you install new MSN updates? I've tried everything and I can't seem to fix it! It's driving me crazy!!!
1:36 PM
Paige: Aren't you sweet? Thanks!!!
1:37 PM
i...don't trust him.
4:57 PM
I don't know if our computers at work were installed with MSN updates. It could be this though. No problem at home, like I said, since I use Mac. Thank goodness I'm not the only one with this problem. It's driving me crazy too!
5:36 PM
Ho: Not to worry. You and Snake will always be my BESTEST guys!!
5:48 PM
awwwwww yayy im happy for you
7:40 PM
Looks like a nice guy to me. That's too cool what you wrote about him. And I was worried too after what Hoss wrote. I trust his word as Gospel.
Hea, my comment on "butt smooching" and "name dropper" was thought up before I even read Hoss's post that day. Never thought the comment could refer to you until you mentioned it and I thought about it. Dang, I'm always putting my foot in my mouth with my comments. My next blog is related to that.
Best wishes for your future.
7:56 PM
Don't you love that fresh excitement that comes when you first meet someone? If he messes up, we'll all take care of him.
8:13 PM
Big Dave: I was just kidding you...no offense taken. I'll go check out your post!
vbkim: Yeah...but I hate the uncertainty. I kind of prefer it when it gets more comfortable and secure. Know what I mean??
8:54 PM
Mandy--my computer is DEAD and has been since very early Monday morning (I'm at the library right now!), and I can't check my charter email from here. You can BET that I'll be pestering you about this when I get my computer back, though! haha! (oh, and if you wrote to me the last couple of days...THAT is why I didn't respond...sigh...sorry!)
12:38 PM
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