Pondering the complexities of life.

Monday, August 1

Negativity...

I was admonishing someone recently for being too negative. I told him that he can't truly enjoy life while he's holding onto anger and bad feelings.

I hope I'll soon able to take my own advice. At the moment, I'm scoffing at myself.


You pompous asshole!
Where do you get off giving other people advice??


People I really care about have been disappointing me over the past few days. People I like and respect have been essentially thumbing their noses at me. It makes me wonder:

  • Do I give people too much credit??
  • Do I tend to be overly positive...until proven wrong? At which time - NOW for example - I practically drown in my negativity?
  • Do I have some subconscious desire to have people hurt me? Do I like feeling broken-hearted? (I sure don't SEEM to be enjoying this feeling!)

I feel like driving off a cliff about now. There's never a good cliff around when you need one! I absolutely feel like crap and I know that no one wants to hear me whine. Those of you I email with have already heard it - TOO MUCH ! Those of you who only visit me here will soon be sick of me if I keep posting. So I will probably drop out of sight for at least a few days, until I can adjust my attitude. I hope that happens before I run out of tissues!

12 Comments:

Blogger Paul Nichols said...

First of all, there is no such thing as "too positive." Things just keep getting positiver and positiver. It's like having too much money.

Second of all, don't stop blogging. You're the reason the rest of us do it. We rocket to your site every day--more often than goo through a goose--then pant like puppy dogs for your comments on ours. It's called 'blusting.' (Blogging and lusting at the same time.)

Third, my neighbor just gave me a half gallon of Black Velvet Canadian Whiskey. Wanna share?

8:35 PM

 
Blogger WordWhiz said...

Paul: If you lived around the block, I'd already be there. As it is, I'll just be downing this glass...and a few more glasses...of wine!

I think I will just try to concentrate (HA!) on doing some research for that freelance article. I'm supposed to write about aroma therapy and I don't know squat about it. Maybe I'll learn something. Sniff and heal! Ahhh...

8:42 PM

 
Blogger bornfool said...

First of all, I'm glad there's not a good cliff around.

Secondly, I can't say it better than Paul did in his second paragraph.

Thirdly, take a couple days off if you need to. Those of us who love you and care for you will always be here.

9:11 PM

 
Blogger WordWhiz said...

Thanks, Lejnd! The tissues are NEVER going to hold out now!!

9:15 PM

 
Blogger mcgibfried said...

thise place is to be cathartic.

no attitude adjustments required.

let 'er rip!

10:49 PM

 
Blogger Hermes said...

Run yourself off a cliff? Huh, what?!? Don't do it Mandy.

I wouldn't want to see those amazingly sexy legs damaged or harmed in any way...

or that sharp, thoughtful, and beautiful mind...

12:44 AM

 
Blogger DBFrank said...

:)
Ah, we luvs ya kid.

6:09 AM

 
Blogger Kira said...

First of all, having a positive attitude is a good thing. Second of all, having a negative attitude after something upsetting is completely, totally normal. Third of all, although I understand why you want to limit your posting on this topic and related ones on the blog, remember you can always email me 50 times a day and I'll do my darndest to keep up! Haha! My therapist told me that, on the whole, women need to talk and talk in order to feel better, but men like to go in a corner and sort it out on their own. So, talk away!

7:51 AM

 
Blogger Amanda said...

Some people have a purpose in life; some people are a waste of sperm. You have a purpose. You're a great person. You've listened to me bitch and moan about similar situations way too many times, and you never once told me to shut up. Being positive is a wonderful thing. Giving people too much credit can bite you on the ass, but that's life. (And we know how hard life bites!) Things have to get better...if not, I'd be more than happy to ride off the cliff with you :)

9:01 AM

 
Blogger WordWhiz said...

McG: Thanks, but you really don't want me going there!

Hermes: I'll will you my legs.

Cowboy: Thanks. And what happened to your archives?? I wanted to read some of your old stuff for inspiration, and it was GONE!

Kira: Thanks. I bet you're tired of hearing that, huh? I bet you're tired of hearing from me PERIOD!

Scuzie: Thank you. Sorry to subject a new visitor to my whiney complaining. I'll get over it and the hunky firemen will return.

Amanda: Sounds like a plan! We'll be like Thelma and Louise!

BG: It's all your fault! When you go away, my world falls apart!!

11:49 AM

 
Blogger naughtygirl said...

awww honey feel better. and no cliff driving!!

3:39 PM

 
Blogger OldHorsetailSnake said...

Nope. No cliff driving.

Love,

Hoss.

6:39 PM

 

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